Friday, June 3, 2011

Sex, Money And Material Things

I heard something today that really disturbed me. There was a young man, that was interested in finding himself a mate or spouse. He was God-fearing, loyal, kind, understanding and had a great job. He asked a woman, could she hook him up with a good woman. Then she asked him what type of woman are you looking for?Then he replied, I want someone like me, loyal, kind ,understanding,God-fearing and well raised. Then she said well I am sorry to tell you, that all those type of women are taken. These days women, only want a man that's good in bed,someone that can pay their bills or someone with a nice ride. He was very upset with that statement and so was I. I then told her that there is more to life than sex, money and material things. She was shocked by my statement then said too me  that men are dogs, some only want a woman for their body and used their money  or cars to attract them. Then I said to her, that the men you are talking about are not really men. They are young boys that have no knowledge of life, fear of God  and do not really know how to be a real man .Age does not exclude some men or women  from this statement, because there are both young fools or old fools.

Also not all men are not a like.All men have hearts, just like women do. Yes, God made us different,but he gave the male and female the ability to love. When God created Adam, he wanted him to have a companion and that is why he created Eve from Adams rib. Every man by nature is seeking their rib,their soul mate, there mate or the good thing the bible describes their wife. The Devil over the years have corrupted Gods master plan and made a lot of men and women sinners. He has confused us with his definition of love, which is sex, money and material things. We as sinners think those things complete us and we are looking for someone to fill that gap. But what most of us  do not realize is that God is the one that can completes us. If we all had God in our lives and made him the head of our lives then we would be complete before we got involved with someone. We do not need another person to complete us , love us or make us happy. Because God is love and with love comes happiness with in thy self, then we become complete.
The man or woman God sends you is your help mate, your heart, your rib and when you marry them you become as one. The person you were before you met them has to change and you have to become something new. Because you both are combining, your ideals, your wants, desires, pleasures  and beliefs. When combined then you become that couple that God intended you to be. Yes, there will be hard times and the Devil will test you both. But with time, patience, a lot of understanding ,Gods direction you both will have a relationship and marriage that will last a lifetime. There is more to life then sex, money and material things. Those things fade away, only love and God remain forever.
Have a blessed night,
Charles
Genesis 2:7 the LORD God formed the man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being.

Genesis 2:22 Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.


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