Wednesday, June 1, 2011

A Key Too A Heart

It has been said for every man God created a woman especially for him. Money, fame, beauty or material things are great to have,but they are not everything . Without love, support, security and God those things don't mean a thing. There is an old saying that my grandmother used to say ,"When the looks or beauty fade only the heart remains". What she meant but this, is when the physical attraction, lust, desire and excitement of something new fades ,then only the heart remain. The heart of a person tells you everything you may need to know about them and also tells you how they may love you. If a man or woman is humble, God-fearing, loyal, hard working and loves his or hers family, then there is a good chance you have a good man or woman. But the real key to any man is his heart and contrary to what most believe, the key to a mans heart is not his stomach and no ladies it isn't sex either.(smile) Some women may ask well if its not his stomach what is it? Then some may ask is it physical or is it the outer beauty? Well to some men some of those things are important, but not the main or the only thing. What men desire the most is a understanding, patient woman,someone that will love him through the good times as well as the bad times and when the bad times do occur be there to protect his heart. In Bible terms his rib or help mate.

The rib protects a man most vital organs, behind the ribs are the liver,lungs and the heart. Once a man gives you his heart and he is forever yours. In facts when he gives you his heart, his life or his ability too live is also in your hands. That's why as a protector you have to be careful when he gives it too you. As a woman or wife, the things you say or do may affect your man or spouse for life. That is why men are hurt so easily when their spouse says something harmful or does something that is meant to hurt only him. What a woman says to her spouse or man can either break or make him and it could also tear him down. That is why its so important for a woman to stay supportive of her spouse and never allow the outside world to interfere in their relationship. When God laid Adam down and took his rib, he created woman to be a help mate and a protector. He created the only key to a mans heart and his only weakness. Both men and women have been forever linked by God, created in the beginning with one purpose in mind. To love, honor, serve, praise and protect each other, far as long as they both shall live. Ladies if you are looking for the key to your spouses heart, you only have to look within yourself. Because you may already posses the key and may already be blessed with the honor of having your spouses heart for as long as you both shall live.
Have a blessed weekend,
Charles
I Corinthians 13:3
If I give away everything I own, and if I hand my body over so that I may boast but do not have love, I gain nothing


6 comments:

  1. feeling this very much so.I'm still waiting patiently on him to be heavenly sent.Tired of the same games people tend to play.just like the saying goes...since sex got easier,there is no room for love.I'm waiting on the love of my life to come.and I know God will send him to me.still have faith in all things through him.I might get lonely at times,but never alone.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Well said Ms. Griffin. Part of the reason I wrote this is because most men are getting a bad rap. Its been rumored or said that all men are dogs and all they want from their women is sex. Thats not true! When men become older and mature they realize that there is more to love or life than sex. There are a lot of good, God fearing men, searching for real love and its not easy. Thats why with faith in God and constant prayer, any man or woman can or will find true love. Good luck to you Ms. Griffin and I know one day God will bless you with the desires of your heart.

    Charles

    ReplyDelete
  3. Some people only know love as being physical (sex) so they focus on the one act, but true love is an emotional connection (not lustful), all things will fall into place. How you treat someone and what you do for them, your love will shine every in every aspect of your relationship and that includes giving your full support and dedication to someone. Most people only learn from what they see others do such as family members resulting in generations falling in the same situations that you treat a woman this way and a man that way. We have been taught that good sex keeps a man or a woman, but true love as exemplified in the Songs of Solomon will hold any relationship together. We all want that true love but all of us don't have the tools to give it or even know how to receive it as a blessing in their lives. If the act of lovemaking was viewed as a matrimonial ritual compared to a wedding processional or ceremony, it would be less sex and more focus on the relationship with more lovemaking (emphasis) (married couples only) then you'll never lose your key, it would be treasured too much. Lynette

    ReplyDelete
  4. I agree with you Lynette totally, but I must admit when it comes to relationships or marriage it goes much deeper than that. Sex as you would say is only a word, based of off lust, not feeling. But making love it a totally different thing. When hearts connect and the true feeling of love comes in to play, only then is the union between man and woman is blessed by God. Love above money, material or worldly possessions is the only thing that matters. With God as the head ,Jesus as the center and the Holy Spirit as the whole , any marriage will be a blessing for as long as both shall live. Learn to love a persons insides, then you will be able to appreciate a persons outsides a little more.
    God bless you Lynette, always,
    Charles

    ReplyDelete
  5. Charles, I totally agree with you. Love is a passionate subject for me, I had got so descriptive that I had to tone it down and delete some stuff. lol Lynette

    ReplyDelete