Saturday, January 28, 2012

Two Heads Are Better Than One

 Sometimes we miss our blessings because we are afraid of moving on. Some of us run away from a good man or a good woman, because they are scared or afraid to take chances. I have heard both men and women brag about being single, when in truth they really wished they had someone to love or as my friend would put it their perfect love.  That is why its funny to me, when I hear a man or woman say proudly," I am single by choice". My questions to them or even to you if you happen to in their situation, "Who do you think you are fooling"? Or who are you really trying to convince?( Yourself I hope, because you can't fool God!) Are you trying to cover up your pain or are you making these statement because you are afraid of starting all over again? What I have figured out is, that most of us have been through our share of heartaches'. Many of us have had been through countless failed relationships and others multiple failed marriages. Going through these things would make the strongest men or women crumble and scared to trust, love or give their heart again. That's when many of us try to occupy ourselves with work, school or other things to keep our minds off of men or women. The fear of trying something new or something unknown is scary, because you really don't know if trying something new will work out or fail again. Besides that people these days are crazy and if you have children, then you really have to be careful. You really don't know who is real or fake, but that shouldn't keep you from trying to find true love. Because if you do, then you could find yourself being a very lonely old man or woman without someone to love or to care for you. I don't care who you are, no one can be happy with the fact that they could live the rest of their lives alone.

I know there may be some that are reading this, saying to themselves that this man or writer doesn't know what he is talking about. You may say too yourself that you are happy being alone and don't really need anyone to love you. Even though if you are honest with yourselves then you would know that you are lying, because no one truly wants to live their lives alone. I have heard many men or women say, I don't need a man or a woman, they need me, when in fact men or women need each other. If your are being truthful or like my seventeen year old son would say," Being real with yourself". Then you would admit that you too are in need of companionship and someone to love. Its sad that men and women fight against each other everyday, not realizing that they are really a blessing to each other. Every since to beginning of time men and women have been forever linked together by God. When God took Adams rib then, created Eve men and women will always be linked until the end of time. God created man , then woman and he never intended on them being alone. That's why he created each with a companion. God created woman for man and man for woman or like my late grandmother would say," Two heads are better than one".

 Men seek out and search for a new spouse or mate. I know that there are a lot of crazy men or women out there. But like my mother always told me," Sometimes you have to go through the bad in order to get to the good". The Bible says," when a man finds a wife he finds a good thing". As I think about that verses I can't help but figure that both men and women have to go through many storms, trails or tribulations. In order to appreciate that good man or woman when God blesses us with them. Then when God does bless us with our perfect match, then we will truly know that Two Heads Are Better Than One.
Have a blessed night,
1 Corinthians 13:4-7  4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.


  1. I totally agree with you that two heads or better then one. Yes, we all go through trails and tribulations, because God did not say our lives would be perfect. I would like to embark on the statement you made, I can agree to some point that men and women put up a brick wall when it comes to finding love. Just like you mention after going through failed relationships, disappointments, unfaithful partners, after being single for quite sometime it's not easy to just believe what someone says, when their behavior speaks a different language. I believe that God designed someone for everyone, and learning to trust the judgment of God is a gift from heaven. As a woman of God, I have a lot to offer, and I expect the same in return from the one God designed for me, and me for him. I'm not afraid of committment, because God did not give me a spirit of fear. I'm not afraid to love again, because God is love. The mate that God has choosen for me, I want us to be able to share our hearts as one, someone I can talk to about anything, someone who can encourage me, and I do the same in return. Someone who wants me for me, not my assets or to make life easy for them. I want someone I can grow with spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and have the inspiration of building a spirtiual foundation together. I cannot speak for most people, but I can only speak for myself, I am ready to love again and embrace every moment God allows me and my Godly mate to have to the end of time. Thanks for the words of inpiration, Be Blessed

  2. that was very interesting and you are right two heads are better than one but sometimes other may not see, hear, or believe in the words of inspiration but I enjoyed your reading it is very embracing.