1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear: because fear has torment. He that fears is not made perfect in love.
Monday, August 8, 2011
Misery Loves Company
You every wonder why some people seem to be only happy when you are down and out or depressed? They seem to only want to be around you when you are not happy or when you have no one good in you life(Like a spouse or a mate). The more successful you become , the more unhappy, envious or jealous they become. People seem to really hate it when your life starts to improve and when you start becoming successful.(That is what I called being blessed or when you have favor from God). There is a lot of jealousy and envy going around in the world. There are also people who hate it when you are happy and can not stand it if you find yourself a good man or a good woman, even if they already have one.(That's because they are unhappy with their spouses or mates) There are even some people in your own family that have doubts about your dreams and will say anything to keep you from achieving it. Instead of being there to support your dreams, they are there to tear it down. These people will make statements like he or she is no good for you or they may say you are not good enough to have a man or a woman like that. Then there are other statements like how do you know if you can make it in that city, state or country, you have a hard enough time making it here? Where your family members and friends should be positive ,they are negative and it makes you wonder why do the hate me for trying to be a success? Why do people say negative things and do their best to wreak your dreams, hopes or desires? Why do people make it their business to break up happy marriages or relationships? Why do people spread rumors or lies and bring up your past life in order to wreak your future ? Well the answer to all those questions, is because misery loves company and because some people are only happy, if you are unhappy. Some of these people have miserable lives and therefore they feel left out . They feel if anyone around them gets a blessing from God, that God will not bless them too. Instead of seeking God and asking him for a blessing or direction, they instead take the way of the Devil or the world , then become negative and hate. But it will only back fire if you are a man or woman of God, because what God has for you is for you. No man or woman can keep you from achieving or reaching your goals or keep you from being happy. If you first put your trust, faith and belief only in him. Because Gods plan for you and I ,is perfect, if we acknowledge him and have faith, then all of our dreams or desires will come to past. So the next time someone invites misery into your life, say to them," devil you are a liar! What God has for me is for me and I shall receive the blessings that God has for me, in Jesus name!
Have a blessed night,
Psalm 138:7 Though I walk in the midst of trouble, you preserve my life; you stretch out your hand against the anger of my foes, with your right hand you save me.