A Key Too A Heart

It has been said for every man God created a woman especially for him. Money, fame, beauty or material things are great to have,but they are not everything . Without love, support, security and God those things don't mean a thing. There is an old saying that my grandmother used to say ,"When the looks or beauty fade only the heart remains". What she meant but this, is when the physical attraction, lust, desire and excitement of something new fades ,then only the heart remain. The heart of a person tells you everything you may need to know about them and also tells you how they may love you. If a man or woman is humble, God-fearing, loyal, hard working and loves his or hers family, then there is a good chance you have a good man or woman. But the real key to any man is his heart and contrary to what most believe, the key to a mans heart is not his stomach and no ladies it isn't sex either.(smile) Some women may ask well if its not his stomach what is it? Then some may ask is it physical or is it the outer beauty? Well to some men some of those things are important, but not the main or the only thing. What men desire the most is a understanding, patient woman,someone that will love him through the good times as well as the bad times and when the bad times do occur be there to protect his heart. In Bible terms his rib or help mate.

The rib protects a man most vital organs, behind the ribs are the liver,lungs and the heart. Once a man gives you his heart and he is forever yours. In facts when he gives you his heart, his life or his ability too live is also in your hands. That's why as a protector you have to be careful when he gives it too you. As a woman or wife, the things you say or do may affect your man or spouse for life. That is why men are hurt so easily when their spouse says something harmful or does something that is meant to hurt only him. What a woman says to her spouse or man can either break or make him and it could also tear him down. That is why its so important for a woman to stay supportive of her spouse and never allow the outside world to interfere in their relationship. When God laid Adam down and took his rib, he created woman to be a help mate and a protector. He created the only key to a mans heart and his only weakness. Both men and women have been forever linked by God, created in the beginning with one purpose in mind. To love, honor, serve, praise and protect each other, far as long as they both shall live. Ladies if you are looking for the key to your spouses heart, you only have to look within yourself. Because you may already posses the key and may already be blessed with the honor of having your spouses heart for as long as you both shall live.

Have a blessed weekend,
Charles
I Corinthians 13:3
If I give away everything I own, and if I hand my body over so that I may boast but do not have love, I gain nothing