From the beginning of time women have convinced men to do things they normally wouldn't have done under any circumstances.(Adam, Eve and the tree of Life) Both men and women are forever linked , because when God put Adam to sleep, then took his rib and created Eve. From that very moment men were weakened because of what God took from man. Another thing women must realize is if you are able to convince your man or spouse to do simple worldly things, like buying a home or purchase an automobile,then it should be easy to make him go to church. One of the oldest sayings I have heard is, If you can convince a man to part with his money, then you have more than his heart. You also have his mind, therefore you have all of him. If you really want your man to go to church with you, try using your powers of persuasion to get him there, just as you would for anything else. Make going to church yours and your spouses top priority, instead of the worldly things. Because without God there is no way either of you could posses the material pleasures that you both share or enjoy today. Besides that God blesses a marriage and is given glory when both hear his word. A family that prays together, stays together and a family that serves the Lord together will receive the full blessings of the Lord. So stop believing that you can not get your man to come church, don't give up or in and practice a little faith. Because in Gods own words, "You can do all things through Christ". How to get your man to church? Start off by buying him the best gift known to man, a bible and that will be a small but simple step to get your man to church.
Have a blessed weekend,
Charles
Hebrews 4:12
For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerned of the thoughts and intents of the heart.
I apparently lost faith and gave up. I think the man that was in my life got caught up in the worldly things and for reasons I don't know he refused to worship anyway. I never say him read the bible or pray. When things got bad in the marriage he still didn't turn to God. He didn't communicate or tell me what was going on with him. Ten plus years later he is still the same person no change. Discussion of divorce didn't make a difference. I felt when the final discussion of the divorce was made it was a relief for him. He talked down to me, embarrassed me in public, hollered at me. He is in his own world with no cares in the world. His priorities are not in order. I was just not the person for him. I do pray that he give his life to God before its too late. Sometimes a person that can be good to you isn't good for you. I will not be with a person that don't respect me. I got enough of being walked on and over, talked down to and treated like a child, not a wife so I walked away. Too much stress.
ReplyDeleteWith me i just met a guy i use to see him around alot he gave me his number we talked for a lil bit i asked him if he goes to church he say he doesn't do church 😞 so i asked again so u wouldn't go? Like with me? He said honestly no i wouldn't 😞😞 so im not giving up im praying about it and letting God handle it cus I'm not gonna force him or pressure him but instead make him think about it
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