Fools Gold

Have you ever wondered why there are so many single beautiful people in the world today. Or have you ever wondered why both men and women seem to have a hard time keeping their husbands or wives. Most of these people seem to have their act together or seem to be good people. Some of these people have been married many times or have been in multiple relationships. If you ask them why, then they would always blame the other person and never take responsibility for their own actions. It goes back to what my mother always used to say, what looks good isn't always good or these people can be called fools gold or a wolf is sheep clothing . What do I mean by this? Well just because a man or woman looks good , has a good job or has a high position, doesn't  mean that they are good people. Some people use their beauty and figures as fronts to hide the real person inside. Then there are others who have been blessed with good jobs or wealth . These people feel just because they have more money than the next guy, that they are better than everyone else. When they get into a relationship, they treat the person they are with like a possession . But most of us fall for a persons looks or for what they possess . We forget about the most important thing, it not what they look like or what they possess, its what's in  their  heart that really counts. My mother had a famous saying that still sticks with me today , "When the looks fade, only the heart remain" or  after the money and possession are taken away, only the real person remains. Behind close doors, the real person is revealed and then people wonder, why they were fooled by the looks of a person?

Just because they look innocent, sweet , nice , handsome, beautiful and God-fearing doesn't mean they are that way.If you are seeking a mate or spouse these are just some of the questions you should ask . Will they love me, through the good times as well as the bad? Will they always be this sweet and kind? Are they real God-fearing people? (Even some people in the church are bad people) Will they love my children and family? Will they support my goals, my desires and my dreams? Are they a good person or is this just an act? These are questions you should ask yourself and before making a decision, you should always pray and ask God. Because God will bring out what's in the dark into the light and give you an early warning. He will let you know if you are dealing with a man or woman that's for real. Or he will let you know if its just Fools Gold, wolf in sheep clothing ,someone with something to hide or someone with an unhidden motive .

Have a blessed night,

Charles

Daniel 2:22

He reveals deep and hidden things; he knows what lies in the darkness and light dwells with him.
Job 12:22
He reveals the deep things of darkness and brings utter darkness into the light.
Job 26:6
The realm of the dead is naked before God; Destruction lies uncovered.
Psalm 25:14
The LORD confides in those who fear him; he makes his covenant known to them.