tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497612931654066797.post380584117975697059..comments2022-12-27T21:10:38.187-08:00Comments on God Verses Man: What Does God Feel About Divorce?Charles Holmeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12297519671493680652noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497612931654066797.post-29026522664564864822013-09-02T08:35:47.903-07:002013-09-02T08:35:47.903-07:00This question I asked myself after years of proble...This question I asked myself after years of problems in the marriage and at the point of being separated. I can now look back and see my part in this failed marriage. I did take my marriage vows seriously and only wanted one marriage. I was in love with the idea of someone only loving me after heartbreak in two relationships that was lies. I was not looking for a husband when he came along. I do clearly remember myself telling a friend that if the marriage didn't work I could always get divorced. Those words came back and bit me. We both had our parts of the failures. Now looking back at my life there was no marriage. It was two people who did not have God first in their lives, did not pray together, did not seek God first. We were good people but we both were lost. We did not communicate and kept things to ourselves. When God is not first and the center of your life no relationship or marriage will make it. Out of worrying about what others would say about us divorcing, shame and pride we stayed together and lived as "room dogs". He began speaking negatively about marriage and his words came back and bit him. After year five it was a roller coaster ride. Materialistic things, friends, hanging out with others, putting everyone else's needs first, disrespect at home and in public, verbal abuse, its all about me and what I want was the new marriage. Never once was their mention of putting God first, counseling, time to repent and regroup, apology, or a true conversation of listening with understanding. Talking became "I can't do anything right" or "its always my fault". I was becoming stressed all the time and it began to medically affect me. I began to pray, ask for forgiveness for my part and for God to remove all negative people and situations out of my life. After leaving and having a truthful conversation with my husband we both agreed it was time to move on. I since have found peace. I have God first in my life. I have started over in life awaiting on God to guide and lead me. I prayed and still pray asking God for his grace, mercy and forgiveness. God knows my heart, my purpose and His time for my blessings from Him. I put my trust and faith in God. He is always with me. I thank him for the good and the bad times in my life. He is making me a better person.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com